For people stuck in constant “what if” thinking and chronic internal pressure

GAD often feels like a mind that won’t stop worrying, planning, anticipating, mentally rehearsing, yet never feeling settled. Many people appear capable and composed but feel internally exhausted.

I offer GAD therapy in Central London (W1 / W1W) and online, working with adults whose anxiety is maintained by worry habits, overcontrol, and avoidance of uncertainty and emotion.

My work integrates ISTDP, CBT and psychodynamic therapy, with a focus on what keeps worry going, and how it changes.

When GAD isn’t just “thinking too much”

You might notice:

  • constant worry across multiple areas (work, health, relationships)
  • difficulty relaxing even when things are fine
  • mental rehearsal and “preparing for every outcome”
  • tension, fatigue, insomnia, gut symptoms
  • reassurance seeking or needing certainty
  • self-criticism for worrying

The worry cycle

  • Uncertainty or emotional trigger
  • Worry starts (feels like problem-solving)
  • Short-term relief/control
  • Body stays activated (tension, adrenaline)
  • More worry becomes the default → anxiety strengthens

How ISTDP understands GAD

From an ISTDP perspective, worry often functions as an internal coping strategy:

  • staying in the head to avoid feeling
  • controlling uncertainty to reduce anxiety

We work on increasing emotional capacity so worry no longer needs to do the job of regulating feelings.

How therapy helps

We work to:

  • map your worry cycle and reduce “mental checking”
  • build tolerance for uncertainty
  • reduce overcontrol and perfectionism patterns
  • work with the feelings worry is protecting against
  • improve sleep and switching-off capacity

What sessions look like

Early sessions:

  • identify triggers and worry habits

Ongoing work:

  • practise different responses to uncertainty
  • work with emotional drivers beneath worry

Related ways I work

  • CBT – for worry habits, behavioural experiments, uncertainty tolerance
  • ISTDP – for emotional inhibition and anxiety in the body

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Frequently asked questions

Is GAD treatable?

Yes, particularly when the maintaining cycle is clear.

Do you offer online sessions

Yes.

Do you work in W1W

Yes.

Insurance

See Fees & Insurance.

Next steps